tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post4483790955200413951..comments2023-10-25T03:45:03.077-04:00Comments on Confessions of a Watery Tart: UncertaintyHart Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-6993863211283047172011-09-28T10:19:15.999-04:002011-09-28T10:19:15.999-04:00Funny, we have lived parallel lives. I work in ad...Funny, we have lived parallel lives. I work in advertising. Being open to risk, I decided to go part time after our daughter was born while my husband stepped up his game and has done quite well as a result. The writing was a part time thing and now has grown into a publishing business and freelance editing.<br /><br />I hope your friend felt better after the psychic. Sometimes feeling there is a purpose or destiny takes the pressure off and oddly enough, self-fulfilling prophecy clicking on, things happen. My Great Gran was a psychic (worked with the police and foretold her grandson's violent end). She was the real deal. Unfortunately, there are a lot of charlatans out there. If you friend got a good one, good for her for being open. Luck to her and of course to you. <br />Loving your posts! They make me smile.<br />--HK SavageHeather Savagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09978965489626420425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-78050050634654364642011-09-27T19:13:42.589-04:002011-09-27T19:13:42.589-04:00That's an interesting question to ask; what wo...That's an interesting question to ask; what would have happened it I didn't make THAT decision, at various branching points in life? My strategy has always been to volunteer to work with new stuff that comes up (technology, research). So far I've happened to make some lucky choices, but what happens next time? <br /><br />Hope your young friend is doing well.<br /><br />And I like those Escher painting >:)<br /><br /><a href="http://cold-as-heaven.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Cold As Heaven</a>CA Heavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07558100567878233142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-62263096234383696852011-09-27T17:48:30.122-04:002011-09-27T17:48:30.122-04:00I used to insist on having a detailed outline, com...I used to insist on having a detailed outline, complete with words that I planned to use in each section. <br /><br />Yeah, I don't do that any more. <br /><br />In fact, when I wrote my last book, I made the decision to wing it. And what a joy it was to create! The scenes played themselves out in my mind, and the characters did things that surprised me, and yet made perfect sense.<br /><br />PS - I'm sorry for being MIA from the blogs too, lately. I'm digging out of a ton of work, like Uma's character The Bride in Kill Bill II.Alison DeLucahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06979026382091362305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-23735402341752117412011-09-27T15:52:03.267-04:002011-09-27T15:52:03.267-04:00I don't like uncertainty. I like routine and s...I don't like uncertainty. I like routine and stability. I'm a creature of habit.<br />Then again, where my writing will go from here, if it goes anywhere... of that I am uncertain.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-63280090286701271172011-09-27T14:58:25.590-04:002011-09-27T14:58:25.590-04:00I love M.C. Escher. So good of you to pick one of ...I love M.C. Escher. So good of you to pick one of his drawings. And I have some psychic friends. I honestly don't think that they have any special powers at all although I'd never say that to their face. However, one thing I have gotten from psychics in general is that they are all tremendous listeners and while you are with them, they devote practically all of their time to you. I think therein lies the secret to the magic...just listening extremely well and taking interest in one person for the entire time that you are with them.Michael Offutt, Phantom Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557969104886174930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-34139493321371513292011-09-27T13:53:00.571-04:002011-09-27T13:53:00.571-04:00Writing brings out my wild side. My characters can...Writing brings out my wild side. My characters can be anything, anyone. And yet, there are those who are, shall we say, practical.<br /><br />Writing is fun!Mary@GigglesandGunshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350818228268801008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-66301175855229973502011-09-27T11:31:58.050-04:002011-09-27T11:31:58.050-04:00I'm a lot like you in that I have more of a ti...I'm a lot like you in that I have more of a timeline than a detailed an outline when I write. Also like you in that I had to get through college as fast as possible. Now I look back and wish I'd taken a year to travel.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12399082789777816445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-61086079816739442612011-09-27T10:06:55.782-04:002011-09-27T10:06:55.782-04:00Susan-oh, interesting! I CAN be adaptable... I...Susan-oh, interesting! I CAN be adaptable... I'm good at making lemonade of lemons, but I don't LIKE it. Though, yes, being anchored to a curmudgeon makes it that much harder.<br /><br />Jan-that resting in it is a great. I think that's a really good thing to aspire to.Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-82011119715711314642011-09-27T10:01:04.460-04:002011-09-27T10:01:04.460-04:00Christine-okay, so not a perfect correlation with ...Christine-okay, so not a perfect correlation with writing style, then...<br /><br />Jenny-yes, NO PANTSING! Down with pants! We need a PLAN!<br /><br />Matt-it's true that I like it a lot less when I have responsibilities--I think that's why i have some regrets about not winging it a little when i was responsibility FREE.<br /><br />Teresa-interesting you can work both ways! And I would agree that if things are TOO predictable, I can get bored, too.<br /><br />SA-definitely helps to keep that in mind... growth is good. I think it is hard to remember in the midst of it, but after, at least we can apply it.<br /><br />Johanna-oh, interesting take! I guess I don't fear death except as it applies to needing to care for people, but that is where I hate uncertainty most, too.<br /><br />Mari-funny that I have several young friends in limbo, but i do... wonder if a psychic would help you relax.<br /><br />Terry-Oh, no! Sounds like you met with Trelawney--I always figured she SAW but was lousy at interpretting, too.Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-8396457713982824902011-09-27T10:00:43.915-04:002011-09-27T10:00:43.915-04:00My practice, as a Buddhist, is to rest in the unce...My practice, as a Buddhist, is to rest in the uncertainty. It is what we have even when we don't think so. It is a tough practice and I'm glad to get absolute concrete reminders of the shiftiness of the ground beneath my feet. <br />I read the tarot and go to the occasional channeler, but I don't think about it too much, any more. I guess I believe that the only possible sensible reason to look at the future would be if we had some chance to change it. And we do. so?Jan Morrisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01771180344305042855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-58615842155636018832011-09-27T09:56:21.992-04:002011-09-27T09:56:21.992-04:00I'm actually good at dealing with uncertainty....I'm actually good at dealing with uncertainty. I stay really calm and have faith that everything will work out in the end. Plus, I'm the type where I don't mind a bit of discomfort in my life if it means waiting for the right thing to come along. However, the people closest to me are NOT like this, and therein lies the problem!<br /><br />Thanks for a lot of great insight, Hart!S.P. Sipalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17943968424012034217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-4839004678024827212011-09-27T09:49:25.499-04:002011-09-27T09:49:25.499-04:00My mother went to a psychic once. She insisted we ...My mother went to a psychic once. She insisted we change our fight reservations because the psychic saw "trouble flying at night" and we were on a flight that would have arrived late. We did find a better flight schedule for an earlier flight, so we booked that one instead. (We were traveling with our 9-month-old son.) Only that early flight was the one with the problems, and we ended up arriving well after the original flight had landed (without any mishaps).<br /><br />So, I guess the psychic DID see something, but didn't know how to translate her vision.<br /><br />Terry <br /><a href="http://terryodell.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Terry's Place</a><br /><a href="http://www.terryodell.com" rel="nofollow">Romance with a Twist--of Mystery</a>Terry Odellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11610682530545306687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-49020756880658730972011-09-27T09:23:02.945-04:002011-09-27T09:23:02.945-04:00I had no idea I went to a psychic yesterday... Oh,...I had no idea I went to a psychic yesterday... Oh, wait, this wasn't me you were talking about? It sounded like me... And I agree - the uncertainty SUCKS. If my life doesn't start to resume some sort of predictable routine soonish, I'm bound to go mad. (So, yeah, I'd have jumped in at that job at 22 too. Then again, I probably would have gone for a job with opportunities of travelling, if I had the chance)Cruella Colletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11422848273167338884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-17287529306052972462011-09-27T09:22:45.049-04:002011-09-27T09:22:45.049-04:00Seems like no one likes uncertainty...which certai...Seems like no one likes uncertainty...which certainly makes sense. My personal belief is our discomfort with uncertainty (which I share) is tied up in our fear of death which is all part of the human condition which makes for great writing. See the theme!! Now, if only I had time to write about it :)Johanna Garthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515478890074610814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-70733752020056926092011-09-27T08:20:38.041-04:002011-09-27T08:20:38.041-04:00I'm not the successful at dealing with uncerta...I'm not the successful at dealing with uncertainty, either. I do try and remind myself that it's in those valleys that we grow the most. We might not notice it, but pruning is painful right? *I'm nodding* :)<br /><br />Sometimes we need to sit back and look at where we've been and that tells us where we're headed. Great post!S.A. Larsenッhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06241633272588383935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-24223252068215098442011-09-27T07:30:52.319-04:002011-09-27T07:30:52.319-04:00Certainty is my friend. :)Sameo is my bedfellow. H...Certainty is my friend. :)Sameo is my bedfellow. However, certainty and sameo all the time can be very boring. <br /><br />I write both ways with a plan and without. It depends on the project.T. Powell Coltrinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02160774009926623671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-33329525930302077582011-09-27T07:08:53.718-04:002011-09-27T07:08:53.718-04:00I've got no problem with uncertainty as it per...I've got no problem with uncertainty as it pertains to only me, and in fact I went through a lot of it when I was young, but now that I'm a father, you have to have a certain amount of predictability when it comes to caring for other human beings. Like, oh, for example, the bills must be paid and there needs to be food available for the creatures to eat.Matthew MacNishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03264738483763244969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-57141233583832992602011-09-27T06:39:17.160-04:002011-09-27T06:39:17.160-04:00I do not like uncertainties! They are not NAKED at...I do not like uncertainties! They are not NAKED at all!! They should be banned! And yes I do see a psychic once a year on my birthday! Off I go to hide and find some clothes! LOL! Take care<br />xOld Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13185547869183611159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-13872119362957700172011-09-27T06:33:21.139-04:002011-09-27T06:33:21.139-04:00I don't like uncertainty either. I have to hav...I don't like uncertainty either. I have to have a plan. But the way I write is completely different, I start with a couple of details and learn the rest as I go along. Writing is pretty the only activity where I'm reckless.Christine Murrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08168406879681616375noreply@blogger.com