tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post4460237920085446469..comments2023-10-25T03:45:03.077-04:00Comments on Confessions of a Watery Tart: This and ThatHart Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-46533212992749242312011-03-10T08:30:32.958-05:002011-03-10T08:30:32.958-05:00Leigh-I DID see you were in SF! Lucky! Funny tha...Leigh-I DID see you were in SF! Lucky! Funny that JRM likes In and Out! I think every guy I know who has spent time in Cal likes it better than other options. And good for you for supporting new authors!<br /><br />CaH-I imagine you are an adventure parent—what with all the ski adventures. And our kids are opposite too—one is a risk taker and one really ISN’T.<br /><br />Lee-I imagine it is one of those things you crave more when you can’t have it! There are a couple places in my home town that I never really frequented until I left. And Amanda seems pretty darned grounded in reality, doesn’t she?<br /><br />Julie-You’re WELCOME! Heather so often ‘speaks to me’ if you will—she just is so honest—in a way that can make you laugh and cry at the same time. And I think that twenty something IS part of why the Amanda thing is so surprising, though it really shouldn’t be. I have a number of young writer friends who are FABULOUS. She seems though, both very mature, and really really grounded.<br /><br />Abe-Five Guys most certainly DOES have sexual undertones, and REALLY should be the favorite of the ladies! (though I’ve never been anywhere that had them, I don’t think)<br /><br />MP-it really can be hard to let go a little, but with practice, it works. I was so much more paranoid with my first (and she picked that up and is now paranoid)Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-31676917636101078022011-03-10T01:10:17.096-05:002011-03-10T01:10:17.096-05:00I don't have kids, but what scares me about ha...I don't have kids, but what scares me about having kids is that, even though I TOTALLY agree with you, I will freak out and lock them in the house because I will be so worried something will happen to them and they will turn out to be freaks.Missed Periodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10343265071637032284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-73697645282880873002011-03-09T23:31:36.505-05:002011-03-09T23:31:36.505-05:00In and Out has nothing on Five Guy, but Five Guys ...In and Out has nothing on Five Guy, but Five Guys does not have any sexual undertones to it's name. Or does it???Cheeseboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02358419997798632644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-59229027627307556972011-03-09T22:37:34.168-05:002011-03-09T22:37:34.168-05:00Loved the Adventure Parenting post - pretty much a...Loved the Adventure Parenting post - pretty much articulates all of my own feelings about parenting in this age. Thanks for sharing.<br /><br />And yeah, so.. Amanda Hocking. I read her post too and respected her so much for not acting like the bigshot that could and pointing out that she has to work VERY hard. She seems pretty put together for a twenty-something millionaire/overnight success.Julie Hedlundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04477115458570906449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-25956625327523924292011-03-09T21:10:19.158-05:002011-03-09T21:10:19.158-05:00In-n-Out is okay for fast food, but it's not m...In-n-Out is okay for fast food, but it's not my favorite. I've got two locations within a couple miles from my house but I probably only go there every four months or so. My daughters head to In-n-Out first thing whenever they come to visit--then they come to see me.<br /><br />I heard of Amanda Hocking a couple weeks ago and looked at her blog. I was impressed with what I read there.<br /><br />Lee<br /><a href="http://tossingitout.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Tossing It Out</a>Arlee Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11663942782929929334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-17804880561539529502011-03-09T18:10:38.352-05:002011-03-09T18:10:38.352-05:00That double-double burger made hungry.
I kind of...That double-double burger made hungry. <br /><br />I kind of like that Extreme Parenting attitude, maybe not too extreme, but the principles. You need to practice and make mistakes to learn. That's very much the way I do it with my boys. I works in different ways. When Older Boy comes into the reception in the local Hospital they just laugh when they punch his name into the computer system. He's been a frequent customer throughout the years; concussions, sewing, broken fingers, broken teeth, X-ray of this and that. Little Boy has hardly ever seen a doctor. They have both been brought up in the same way, by the same parents >:)<br /><br /><a href="http://cold-as-heaven.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Cold As Heaven</a>CA Heavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07558100567878233142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-46861459031723797782011-03-09T18:06:02.811-05:002011-03-09T18:06:02.811-05:00can't remember if I told you we're current...can't remember if I told you we're currently in San Francisco for JRM work conference. We came a day early to spend a few nights in Mendocino, and ALL JRM would say on the drive up was "In and Out Burger! Let's stop!" Me: "No! We'll never get there!"<br /><br />In other news, I read that post by AH, and then I went and downloaded her 99-cent book. I'm all about supporting that degree of hard work and level-headedness. She seems like a good kid. I wish her continued success~ :o) <3 U~LTMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05239077455322030275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-79949363911304041692011-03-09T17:44:41.255-05:002011-03-09T17:44:41.255-05:00Helena-Oh, good question! I bet you're right!...Helena-Oh, good question! I bet you're right! Lots of fantasy, as the only real living the get is through books. And LOTS of great stuff to check out on the Oregon Coast...<br /><br />Carol-Happy Wednesday to you too! I think you're right that the 'work hard and write well' are what you can control. I just wish that was ALL it was.<br /><br />Jenny--teehee--yeah, that urge thing might be more American...<br /><br />Clarissa-I suspect you are in a 'have to watch them' position. I know Mexico has some real danger hot spots.<br /><br />MPax-I lived in Oregon 84-2000 and I miss it ALL THE TIME, but my job tract dictated a move, so we are in Ann Arbor, MI now. (I grew up in Idaho)<br /><br />Mary-I think you're right that fantasy doesn't require the same life lessons to write... I mean SOME of it... romance is better with some experience... then again, middle aged me isn't very sympathetic to people who get dumb over love, so maybe I have TOO MUCH experience on that front...Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-43181199178734284912011-03-09T17:35:33.998-05:002011-03-09T17:35:33.998-05:00If I hadn't stumbled on Amanda Previous to thi...If I hadn't stumbled on Amanda Previous to this hoopla I would be tempted to not like her much. I don't think age has a lot to do with writing other than life experience. If you write about things that are not real - zombies, vampires and the like who is going to say it's not true.<br />Amanda put a lot of time and effort in her writing and hit things at the right time. She is still working very hard.Mary@GigglesandGunshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350818228268801008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-82296372209111597922011-03-09T17:00:53.581-05:002011-03-09T17:00:53.581-05:00Oh, a fellow Oregonian. I'm not a native, but ...Oh, a fellow Oregonian. I'm not a native, but I love this state and the beaches and the nowhere places and dirt roads with no name. <br /><br />Looking forward to your blogfest next week. :)M Paxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14096697282530998519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-31957031031019670152011-03-09T16:40:20.836-05:002011-03-09T16:40:20.836-05:00Great mish mash of items. Hmm, did I spell that ri...Great mish mash of items. Hmm, did I spell that right? Anyway, I haven't heard of Amanada Hocking so I'm not sure what's going on but I'll check out the sites. I'm with you about parenting. I've got such a tight grip on my son I'm not sure I'm a great example but I see the good in the idea.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12160669603997465454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-91832886155192484402011-03-09T16:30:46.778-05:002011-03-09T16:30:46.778-05:00We love us some wild NAKED tart!!!!
Oh but I am s...We love us some wild NAKED tart!!!!<br /><br />Oh but I am so behind the Nakedness stakes as I had to really try and see the "ooo-er missus, titter ye not" double entendre to the burger sign. Ahem.<br /><br />Yay Amanda Hocking too - I wish her all the best!!! <br /><br />Take care<br />xOld Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13185547869183611159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-69084951258477993292011-03-09T14:53:09.972-05:002011-03-09T14:53:09.972-05:00Absolutely--I read Amanda's blog post and was ...Absolutely--I read Amanda's blog post and was impressed by her humble attitude and great explanation of her success. Key words: work hard and write well. :) Happy Wednesday, Hart!Carol Riggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14092209912983783974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-81747037056349258232011-03-09T14:32:44.384-05:002011-03-09T14:32:44.384-05:00Ever wonder what kind of novels over-protected kid...Ever wonder what kind of novels over-protected kids might someday write? Maybe some good fantasy or scifi books, but not real-world classics like Huck Finn or To Kill a Mockingbird.<br /><br />The one time I drove up the Oregon coast, I was stunned at how beautiful it was. Next time I'll take long days checking it out.Helenahttp://www.becominglayla.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-5551803703160346762011-03-09T12:30:07.109-05:002011-03-09T12:30:07.109-05:00Michael- Jersey Shore!? Eep is right! Though i d...Michael- Jersey Shore!? Eep is right! Though i do know people who appreciate the 'so bad it's good' scale, and she might be applying that... And frankly, her target writing market might be into all that... My teen loves it.<br /><br />Sarah *snicker* Sorry to make you hungry...<br /><br />VR-you and I can get condos in the same town and meet for a beer when we need a writing break (I'd also love to retire there)... Sorry I picked on the 49ers... sort of...Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-2203720977469708442011-03-09T11:30:52.489-05:002011-03-09T11:30:52.489-05:00I have great memories of being a kid, out on my bi...I have great memories of being a kid, out on my bike, exploring 'til dark. When I think of some of the places I ended up—I was inordinately fond of cemeteries and construction sites—I wonder how I avoided an accident. It's sad that safety has become such an issue for children, and I wonder how overprotective I'd be if I had kids. Pretty sure I'd make a lousy parent.<br /><br />And FWIW, my family's been in California for six generations and I graduated UC Berkeley, but I agree the beauty of the Oregon coast has no equal. My goal is to retire there and do nothing but look out the window and write. <br /><br />I also dislike fast food, but, hey, no fair picking on the 49ers. :)VR Barkowskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04927993233682731113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-1166060595018666242011-03-09T11:28:22.607-05:002011-03-09T11:28:22.607-05:00well... now i want a burger. Sigh.
I'm complet...well... now i want a burger. Sigh.<br />I'm completely with you there on letting the kids do advernturous things.Sarah Ahiershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02795455714801965956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-70816143608271250862011-03-09T10:46:59.969-05:002011-03-09T10:46:59.969-05:00I love Amanda Hocking. She's been such a great...I love Amanda Hocking. She's been such a great inspiration just hearing her story. I followed her on Twitter and on her blog just to keep up with what she's doing. Although the woman seems to absolutely adore Jersey Shore--eep.Michael Offutt, Phantom Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557969104886174930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-27923465591699166002011-03-09T10:15:41.569-05:002011-03-09T10:15:41.569-05:00Lisa--funny how these moms that gave freedom, as g...Lisa--funny how these moms that gave freedom, as grandparents want structured stuff for their grandkids--my mom always wonders why we aren't involved in this to that... she thinks we should be GOING TO stuff all the time...<br /><br />Katie-too funny that you have relatives doing the same! Maybe it is just that she has made such news that the non-writing public is hearing about her and it's all they know of it. And My daughter had a pretty high level of 'chicken' as a kid (and had to be pushed to be active)--she lived in a big city until she was 5, so that was part of the paranoia. My son is totally fearless and nearly never sits still (though he does have days he only moves his thumbs, if you know what I mean (Play Station)) We move here, though, well before his memory starts (he was 1 1/2)<br /><br />Carol-in the summer, we were out until we got called--neighborhood full of kids, didn't need to go more than a block, but later than dark... like 9:30 or 10, playing kick the can or some such thing.Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-48403729490489520732011-03-09T09:36:01.161-05:002011-03-09T09:36:01.161-05:00I totally agree that kids need that freedom to be ...I totally agree that kids need that freedom to be kids. It's how they learn and grow. I was a streetlight kid, too. When they came on, I had to hightail it home.Carol Kilgorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15168273312704732896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-20419202260257656572011-03-09T09:08:19.942-05:002011-03-09T09:08:19.942-05:00I hear you about parenting now a'days. Maybe ...I hear you about parenting now a'days. Maybe its because my hubby grew up in the city rather than out int he country side like me and we're living in a highly populated suburb-but my kids just don't seem to have the same love of nature I had. Or the same desire to throw themselves around, run head first into couches, climb trees, do cartwheels, etc... My oldest despises any physical activity and is afraid of everything; heights, loud noises, the dark, animals, water, etc...she's seven years old. <br />And YES! Two non writing family members also sent me the hocking's article recently like 'look! you should do this!' lolCreepy Query Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18115161057496086972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-68939325303659584132011-03-09T09:06:28.125-05:002011-03-09T09:06:28.125-05:00Great post by Amanda. Thanks for the link.
My mom...Great post by Amanda. Thanks for the link.<br /><br />My mom thinks I give my kids too much "exploring time", but if they never have those experiences, how are they ever going to make smart decisions on their own?Lisa Pottshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11676087488599338569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-29842670097752445432011-03-09T09:00:21.962-05:002011-03-09T09:00:21.962-05:00Alex-We fortunately live someplace it still IS pre...Alex-We fortunately live someplace it still IS pretty safe. And I am a full-disclosure parent, so they know the things to watch for.Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-75137392961495645012011-03-09T08:59:28.617-05:002011-03-09T08:59:28.617-05:00Elizabeth- totally agree--if someone acts like the...Elizabeth- totally agree--if someone acts like they deserve it, even, it is harder to take because it implies OTHER people don't. And my kids have their cell phones, too. If you give them the tools to get in trouble, best give them the tools to call for help!<br /><br />Rachael-I love that 'hope for us all' piece, too. You know, that doesn't have to be just brand new writers, either. Suzanne Collins had decent success with her early books, but I think Hunger Games was her 3rd series and the one that finally really broke her out as a superstar.<br /><br />Erica-that respect angle is big, too. And trust--trusting your kids I believe leads to better decision making eventually. People who only do the right thing because they think they are being watched never really learn why they REALLY should do the right thing.Hart Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599570189253229318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7127677169344207651.post-40414231090840506142011-03-09T08:54:30.972-05:002011-03-09T08:54:30.972-05:00Biking all over town - back in the day when it was...Biking all over town - back in the day when it was safe to do so - I remember those times.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.com